Demanding kids!
"I want another ice cream now!" The demanding child can become very annoying and make you lose your patience! But do not despair, we have the solution to correct his attitude.
How many times have we stopped on our way to observe the three-year-old boy who pulls his mom's skirt and asks her to fulfill a desire! This type of child is very difficult and often makes parents feel angry. The demanding child always wants something and wants it right now. The "later", "no" and "we will think" are phrases that do not exist in his vocabulary. What, however, is it that a child is doing so? Of course the way he has grown up and the principles he has taken from his parents. A demanding child is a spoiled child and as such must be treated! No matter what, you have to be rigorous!
6 Steps to imply your rules
Advise!
Young demanding children do not mean that they are "bad" children. Teach the child the right ways to express his desires. In any case, you should be aware of the following:
- Encourage the child with your positive attention when it is not treated badly and on the contrary ignore it when it behaves badly.
- Realize that no evil pure good! All currencies, in fact, have two sides ... Look for the good elements in your child's behavior (and yet there are!). What are these; The fact that such a demanding child "hides" within him a child who knows what he wants and how to set goals. A child who has great leadership skills but does not know where they stop and when it goes beyond the limits. This is your job to teach it.
- Consider the behavior of yours and the people with whom the child is engaged. Perhaps this inappropriate behavior is due to the imitation of a person's similar behavior from your family or social environment.
Stay focused!
A basic part that we always care to highlight is the rules in which a child must grow up. Do not feel remorse when you set limits on your little one, An uncontrollable life does not benefit anyone. Besides, even the big ones have limits and we follow some rules in our everyday life. Your little one must learn that it is impossible to fulfill all his desires, because even if you are willing to do so, your friends, colleagues and generally his surroundings will not be compatible with such a prospect!